Now the mind of the flesh is death [both now and forever—because it pursues sin]; but the mind of the Spirit is life and peace [the spiritual well-being that comes from walking with God—both now and forever]; the mind of the flesh [with its sinful pursuits] is actively hostile to God. It does not submit itself to God’s law, since it cannot, and those who are in the flesh [living a life that caters to sinful appetites and impulses] cannot please God.
Romans 8:6-8 amp
Most believers in Christ Jesus think living according to the flesh is commiting a clear sin like lying, not forgiving or not being loving towards others but it’s much deeper than that.
the mind of the flesh [with its sinful pursuits] is actively hostile to God. It does not submit itself to God’s law, since it cannot, and those who are in the flesh [living a life that caters to sinful appetites and impulses] cannot please God.
Romans 8:7-8 amp
Living according to our flesh is literally not caring about the will of God for our lives. It’s making our own choices without consulting God first, making our own decisions and doing whatever we think is good for us.
So then, brothers and sisters, we have an obligation, but not to our flesh [our human nature, our worldliness, our sinful capacity], to live according to the [impulses of the] flesh [our nature without the Holy Spirit]— for if you are living according to the [impulses of the] flesh, you are going to die. But if [you are living] by the [power of the Holy] Spirit you are habitually putting to death the sinful deeds of the body, you will [really] live forever.
Romans 8:12-13 amp
Living according to the flesh is not walking in the Holy Spirit, it’s a refusal to be lead by Him, a refusal to grow in Christ, a refusal to obey the commands of Jesus,a refusal to share His Gospel, a refusal to bear fruit of the Holy Spirit.
Therefore, my fellow believers, you too died to the Law through the [crucified] body of Christ, so that you may belong to another, to Him who was raised from the dead, in order that we may bear fruit for God. When we were living in the flesh [trapped by sin], the sinful passions, which were awakened by [that which] the Law [identifies as sin], were at work in our body to bear fruit for death [since the willingness to sin led to death and separation from God].
Romans 7:4-5 amp
Living according to the flesh is being selfish. It’s doing whatever pleases us, following our desires instead of God’s will for us.
Among these [unbelievers] we all once lived in the passions of our flesh [our behavior governed by the sinful self], indulging the desires of human nature [without the Holy Spirit] and [the impulses] of the [sinful] mind. We were, by nature, children [under the sentence] of [God’s] wrath, just like the rest [of mankind].
Ephesians 2:3 amp
Living according to the flesh means we are still under the sentence of God’s wrath.
And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the sinful nature together with its passions and appetites. If we [claim to] live by the [Holy] Spirit, we must also walk by the Spirit [with personal integrity, godly character, and moral courage—our conduct empowered by the Holy Spirit].
Galatians 5:24-25 amp
If we truly want to be a true born again disciple of Jesus we must crucify our flesh, our desires, our dreams, our wants and our will. We must submit to the sovereignty of God, walk empowered by the Holy Spirit, obeying every commands of Jesus. True disciples of Jesus have been reborn of water and Spirit. We cannot have one foot in the world and one foot in Christ. When we truly want to serve God we want His will to be done and not our will in every single detail of our life; the job He wants for us, the spouse he wants for us, where He wants us to be….we must seek His will above all else. It’s a life a total devotion and sumbmition to God.
This is called not living according to our flesh.